Comments for Dating Tips & Relationship Advice for Women

Comment on Dating Advice for Women - How To Bring Him Back When He Pulls Away by Amy

Amy — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 19:13:46 +0000

Yeah, as soon as you say ‘I feel’ his relationship talk alarm will go off and he will have exactly the same reaction. The best thing to do is go call your girlfriend and tell HER how you feel. Then wait for him to ask. Then tell him less than he wants to know and make him work for the additional information. This is the only time men value information about how you feel. (And then half the time they resent the fact that you feel it at all.)

Comment on Men and Women- Using Pause Conditioning To Overcome Your Dating Fears by Kathleen

Kathleen — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:09:48 +0000

A man cannot sexually satify a woman unless he respects her leadership in the relationship. He has to be a strong, confident alpha follower. A woman’s place is on top - in the boardroom AND the bedroom.

Comment on How You Could Find a Partner using Internet Dating Service by Dating in Gauteng

Dating in Gauteng — Sat, 31 Oct 2009 16:50:03 +0000

More and more people do online dating to do special date or just add their friends, and there are a lot of free internet dating services that available in the market, but online dating service is very popular,.

Comment on Free Dating Online - The Info You Must Learn by donna f. ferber, lpc, ladc

donna f. ferber, lpc, ladc — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 21:44:37 +0000

Baby Boomers are embracing internet dating with gusto. However, many report a disappointing experience. Perhaps, they need to think about what it is they are looking for at this stage of life. As a psychotherapist who works with clients in life transitions, I offer these thoughts.
Baby Boomers have different goals and needs than the younger folks using Internet dating sites. This is because they are in a different life stage. Knowing and understanding these difference can make your experience of midlife dating more enjoyable.
Baby Boomers have had prior love relationships—usually at least one marriage. They have had their share of loss, pain and disappointment. Chances are they have experienced illness and the death of a loved one. They also have raised children, fulfilled some dreams, and many are professionally accomplished. They have faced huge challenges. They know great joy and deep sorrow. Many are caretakers to elderly parents or grandkids. Their vast experience changes their perception of life and partnership from when they were younger.
Their circumstances are different from the Generation Xers. An unmarried twenty-something is looking for a partner with whom to have children, build careers and create a life. Often they have had no significant relationship disappointment and no prior marriages or children.
Boomers have built a life and are looking for someone with whom they can share it. They may be retired, which means more time to spend with a partner, but it may mean less or a fixed income. Rather than being “upwardly mobile,” Boomers usually are enjoying the fruits of their youth, but need to watch their pennies. Furthermore, over their lifetime, Baby Boomers have developed strong belief systems—what they value, what they believe and who they vote for.
No longer looking to raise a family together or build careers together, Boomers are looking for someone to share the hard times as well as the fun times. Again, twenty-something’s think less about illness and end-of-life issues. Baby Boomers, while kicking and screaming about getting older, realize that life is short, people get sick and die, pensions can disappear and the unexpected happens. They have confronted disappointments and dealt with crisis. They are looking for someone with grit and strength to hang in there when the times get tough.
By taking sometime to explore what kind of relationship they REALLY want at this stage in life, Baby Boomers are less likely to set themselves up for disappointment.
Donna F. Ferber, LPC, LADC
Psychotherapist and Author “Profileactics: A Guide for the Prevention of Ill-Conceived Personal Ads

Comment on Free Dating Online - The Information You Should Learn by admin

admin — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 20:02:53 +0000

I don’t know - perhaps it changes as women get older and realize that they are letting their bodily reactions rule more than their sense/brain/heart, but too, as women get older, perhaps the hormonal needs that urge them to find “alpha males” to procreate with lessen as well.

Comment on Free Dating Online - The Information You Should Learn by Casual Relationship UK

Casual Relationship UK — Fri, 11 Sep 2009 00:45:31 +0000

Great article, very Freudian view point you put forward. It is undoubtedly true that women are attracted to the bad guys, but diesn’t this change as women get older?

Comment on Find Criminal Records On The Person Your Dating by Lady Luck Dating

Lady Luck Dating — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 16:26:20 +0000

I suppose this is a double edge sword, as you want to be safe with this person you have met, especially if you have children, but then shouldn’t a relationship be built on trust? If you can’t trust this person you are dating, or have doubts then maybe it’s not going to work anyway.

I’m not whether this would work in the UK. I think data protection laws might prevent people from doing this kind of check, unless you were going for a job or something.

Great thought provoking article.

Comment on What you should know about online dating security? by Lady Luck Dating

Lady Luck Dating — Sun, 06 Sep 2009 18:11:58 +0000

Great advice, the ‘hacker safe’ button or icon is something to definitely look out for on a dating site. I noticed a jump in sign ups when I added that service to my dating homepage.

Keep up the good work…

Comment on Totally Free Adult Online Dating Services – Do They Exist? by Lady Luck's

Lady Luck's — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 00:19:01 +0000

Hey there,

Yeah there’s still some out there, but the quality netowrks you need to pay for. I suppose it like most things in life, no different in the adult dating world.

x http://www.ladylucks.org.uk

Comment on Find Criminal Records On The Person Your Dating by Californian

Californian — Wed, 02 Sep 2009 04:41:42 +0000

I agree. In California for example, you can check the background of the people online i.e. state-run websites.