I have always enjoyed engaging in flirting. It’s all fun and games until that ring is around your finger. Where would we be without Flirting? From the first time that I met my husband, I’ve been an expert in flirting. To know how to flirt men you have to be confident, easy going, and witty. Now I am not talking about the one liners guys like to drop. You must be feeling tired, since you have been running in my mind the whole day. Seriously? Successful flirting takes practice but is well worth the effort.

Being that some men are clueless to all you have to say, sometimes its a blessing. Some guys are clueless, even after practically flashing them, they still don’t getthat you are trying to flirt with them. The best advice I have been given when speaking to an individual or group of individuals has been to speak carefully my words and never lose eye contact. The women get swept off their feet with innumerable romantic whispers, promises and some times a lot of sweet nothings when men woo women. Women too, being incorrigible romantics, are carried away and start fantasizing that they have got the man of their dreams.

Then follows the usual ritual and the man proposes and the woman eagerly accepts. Wedding takes place, followed by a dream honeymoon and then the couple returns to their daily rigor. All is hunky dory for some days and then gradually, the euphoria lessens and the man slowly unveils his real self. He throws his things around expecting his wife to restore them to their places, expects laundered clothes all the time, wants breakfast to be ready by the time he leaves, expects wife to greet him when he returns, watches TV while sipping coffee, while the wifey dear is preparing dinner.

He has his dinner and goes to sleep blissfully unaware of what his wife wants. Do you want to know what men really want? They want a lover, friend, mother, sister, nurse, house keeper, adviser, all rolled into one in the form of a wife and I must say that is what makes them lovable! To my mind, what most men find attractive, more than anything else, is a sense of fun. You want a woman (or another man, if that’s your preference) who enjoys life and doesn’t get hung up on anxieties or gloomy scenarios. Who wants misery and anxiety? You will welcome an enthusiastic and optimistic guy who will make people laugh heartily.

Someone who cares more about pleasure than guilt will try new things for the sake of trying them. If you want to attract a man, show him that you’re not afraid to embrace the things you enjoy. You do not want to spend your time with someone who will not allow themselves to partake in all the greatness that is offered in their lives. This would make for a very poor life partner. I liked such women most who were willing to share a goofy joke,and be frivolous often.